Yes, I thinking sending hate is wrong. I think she changed tbh, but that's ok. Sometimes I miss her old times too. I don't like that guy and maybe Naya will kick his ass one day. I hope she's enjoying her life though. What annoys me is their fandom (and his fans?). Do you see what they do? They hate and assume you're a hater and racist if you just don't ship them and dislike him. Like, WTF? Not every Brittana/Heya or something do that. Hate is when you offend someone and you say rude things.
I totally agree! But with saying that, our fandom hasn’t been too kind either, so I’m not gonna judge Big Sean’s fandom, when members of the one I’m apart of, haven’t exactly been setting a good example. I think people just need to take a bit of a step back and chill out a. They shouldn’t let it bother them so much, coz at the end of the day, it doesn’t make a tack of difference to anyone’s life what Naya chooses to get up to in her personal life. I mean, I’m a really hardcore fan, and it doesn’t bother me in the slightest, ha.
This Fandom is Like A Broken Record, Singing a Different Variation of the Same Tune Every Day
So, a lot of people seem unhappy that Naya’s apparently “changed”… And as I always say, people are entitled to their opinion, and I’m not telling said people that what you’re feeling is wrong, coz you can’t help how you feel & that’s fair enough, and you don’t have to like it, but of course she’s changed! Everyone changes with time. Her life experiences have shaped who she is now, as they do everyone else! No ones’s the same person they were 3 years ago! And it’s unfair to expect her to be. We grow up, we meet new people, we face new obstacles, and we achieve new things, and all that plays a part in who we become. It’s impossible to stay the same forever, and quite frankly, in MY opinion, anyone who expects Naya to, is kind of selfish. And I’m not here preaching, thinking I’m wonderful, I know I’ve definitely changed, and not all for the better either, and I’m also not saying you have to agree with what I’m saying, or think my opinion is right, if you don’t, that’s totally fine too.
Yes, Naya to a degree, because she’s a celebrity, is in a way, public property, but she’s also a person, and you can’t hold her on this pedestal forever. I’m not saying you have to support her decisions, and I’m not saying you have to like how she’s changed. But take a good long look in the mirror, and tell me you haven’t changed in any way even in the last few months? And if you don’t think you have, well I’m glad you think you’re so perfect that it’s your god-given right to judge someone else for not being who you want them to be. Give the girl a break, if what she does in her personal life bothers you THAT much, well, that’s more on you then it is on her.
Now, on the whole, I am very fond of this fandom, and usually avoid giving an opinion on anything really, because the majority of this fandom seems to respect when I have an opinion, much like I do them. But seeing this constant nit picking, and whining, and arguing, every time she makes a public appearance, or a new picture surfaces, is taking the fun out of it for the whole fandom. You don’t like her anymore? Fine. No one’s forcing you to troll the Naya tag, or follow her on twitter, or Instagram, you are free to hit the unfollow button. So really, complaining about the same thing every day is getting pretty old, pretty fast, and is accomplishing nothing besides taking the fun out it all for those who really just don’t care either way, and are just happy to live in our Naya Rivera bubble of bliss. If you wanna leave the fandom, just leave, no need to make a song and dance about it, no need to try and convince others that you’re right. If you think you’re right, that should be enough verification for you, you shouldn’t need justification from everyone else. But some of us genuinely aren’t bothered about her personal life, and enjoy her in interviews and pictures, and on twitter, so it’d be really nice if people just let those that still enjoy it all, enjoy it, instead of clogging up twitter and tumblr feeds with constant negativity. It’s exhausting to look at. Regardless of the topic, when every single tweet or tumblr post a person puts out into the world is hateful, or negative, it just brings people down. Don’t like what you perceive as “the new Naya”? Then why not try posting something positive from your own life, rather than focusing on being such a downer all the time about someone else’s?
And that’s all I have to say about that…
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Naya talks Demi, Taylor Swift, her album, and hints at a collab with Big Sean
Now, if only we could get a Naya/Demi picture! What’s the damn hold-up?!
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i just hope there aren't any of those things in her song w/ him
I doubt it. I mean, personally I haven’t heard lyrics of his that I find offensive, but I haven’t heard all of his songs, but I see people say some of his lyrics are misogynistic, and I personally, don’t take offence to those, but I guess everyone finds different things offensive, so who knows, I’m sure there’ll be a few people who’ve decided they won’t like before even listening. And that’s their prerogative :)
Hey. Your favorite is back, lol. Argh! I hope Naya's album is really good. I've waited for this album for so long... :( Did you ever listened to what Sean says in his lyrics?
Hi there :)
I think everyone shares that sentiment! ha…
I’ve heard a few of his songs, not all of them, the ones I heard have not been ones with offensive lyrics & I think they’re pretty good, I don’t support nor condone offensive lyrics, so I figure I just won’t listen to those ones! ha
The fact that fans have become so entitled that they believe they have the right to dictate who a person dates disgusts me. We live in a capitalist society. People provide goods and services and we purchase them whether it is chips or songs. Lays doesn’t owe you control over their life if you pick…
Preeeaach!
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Oh, I see. I dislike him anyway, haha, but I don't spend my time posting things... I just act like he doesn't exist when I look at Naya's pics, LOL. I'm so tired of the fandom fighting all the time. Ugh! Yes, I also don't ship real life couples. I would think some real life couples cute, but it's not like I would read fanfics about them, talk about their relationship, etc. Brittana... Sigh. I really miss them. 4x22 made me so upset. :/
Oh yeah, like it doesn’t bother me if people hate him, but it also doesn’t bother me if people like him. I just honestly haven’t given him much thought. I personally don’t have any major beef with him. But it’s cool with me how other people feel about it.
Oh God, let’s not even get started on how much TV writers broke my heart this season, between Brittana and Calzona, it’s almost as if they wanted to throw me into a fit of fangirl depression! Ha
Big Hoopla? LOL. I'm not sure if I get it (I don't speak English at all.) Some fans are crazy. I don't like that guy tbh. What he said about gays in an interview was stupid. I just can't like someone that says homophobic things. I think Naya deserves a guy much better than him. She is flawless, you know. I don't send hate though. I respect Naya. Sending hate is childish, huh? I don't ship Heya. I think they would be cute together, but I don't think they were more than friends, LOL.
To be honest with you, I don’t really have an opinion on Sean one way or the other, I just don’t give him any thought at all. I’m totally indifferent to his relationship with Naya which is why I’ve refrained from really voicing anything about it.
I agree! Sending hate is pointless in my opinion. It doesn’t accomplish anything and it just causes unnecessary debates and arguments. People clearly have very divided opinions on the matter, and are not going to agree on it, so they’re just going around in circles arguing. The way I see it is, whoever Naya dates has zero impact on my life, so why waste time in my day worrying about someone else’s relationship?
I don’t ship them either. LOVE Brittana and all that, but shipping non-fictional couples doesn’t tickle my fancy. But that’s just me. :)
PRAISE!! Why are people so nosy? I'm so tired of fandoms. After the "she wants the D.", I assume that was a Big Naya shipper. Isn't that the one thing they always say? Why don't they just shut up?
I just don’t really get the big hoopla in general. I’m totally indifferent to her relationship, I fangirl over her as an individual, what she does behind closed doors is up to her, and doesn’t bother my life one way or the other :) Arguing fandoms definitely takes some of the fun out of it…
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